Things can change very quickly and if we remain in our origin all the time, we may not improve as the others
Imagine. A bowl of noodles costs a few bucks a decade ago, but the price for the same item today has doubled up or even more than that! Not to mention the price of that bowl of noodles in my parents’ time, it has skyrocketed after dozens of years.
Imagine. A bowl of noodles costs a few bucks a decade ago, but the price for the same item today has doubled up or even more than that! Not to mention the price of that bowl of noodles in my parents’ time, it has skyrocketed after dozens of years.
People in
the past would satisfy and consider themselves lucky enough if they own a
typical road car but we just feel only a luxury car makes us look good today.
As a matter of fact, the single element that holds the key to a different
environment we lived in today lies within the word – change.
I was
clueless with how fast things have changed until I looked back at my childhood
photos on one particular day. In fact, it does wonder that how fast time has
sneaked without us realizing it.
Many of us
would consider every day is just an ordinary day but if you put a tick at the
start of the month on the calendar, and, look at it again after some time, you
will notice how fast the time has passed indeed.
Notwithstanding, just as
everything around us are changing all the time, are we doing the same for good
or stay firm with our way-old life principles? In the
construction industry, doing manual and hand calculations was a must for every
engineer in designing a project.
The tide has changed today as engineers are
equipped with state-of-the-art software combining the effective spreadsheets to
enable them to key in the databases. For engineers who are familiar and used to
the traditional methods, they must find a fix to it in order to adapt
themselves to the new programs.
Indeed, it
is worth realizing that we need to keep ourselves abreast with the latest
happenings around us and take the necessary approach to change our way of
working or behavior if we want a better outcome of our job – all the time – in
whatever endeavor.
One of the
differences between the parents of today and the past is the way they treat
their children. Parents in the past do not pamper their kids too much and the
kids would be caned if they are caught behaving inappropriately. Parents
that we see today do not set de rigueur
standards at their home and realize the current generation of young people are
immune from punishment.
Similarly,
in a relationship, our partner is constantly hoping for us to change for the
better – with time. For example, if we are bad-tempered, egotistic and
inconsiderate, definitely our partner wants us to get rid of our bad traits. We cannot
always expect the people next to us to tolerate with our brash attitudes if we
desire a harmonious relationship with them, for sure.
There is
one golden rule when it comes to dealing with daily problems and if we cannot
fully prioritize that practice, regardless of how good we are: We are not
perfect. It is never about the people around us and it is always about how we
make changes to ourselves to influence effectively.
By: Vincent Ti